Lady in Red
Lois was born in Baltimore and later moved to Bloomington, Indiana, where she met her husband. They each received PhD's, she in Classics, and he in English and American Literature. They both taught at the University of Missouri-Kansas City, which is the only reason they moved to Kansas City, Mo. They spent over three decades in Kansas City, building their careers and raising their two sons, Stephen and David. The couple often traveled during semester breaks, frequently visiting New York City, particularly Brighton Beach, where her husband's family resided.
In 1999, they retired and chose San Francisco as their new home, drawn by its culture, pleasant weather, and proximity to family. San Francisco offered Lois opportunities for intellectual engagement, as nearby universities kept her connected to her passions. But in 2010, her husband's longing to return to his roots brought them back to New York City.
Setting on the Upper West Side, the couple found a neighborhood rich in everything they loved: the arts at Juilliard, performances at Lincoln Center, cozy cinemas, and the convenience of having all necessities within walking distance.
It was a gloomy day in New York City, the first rain in 90 days. I was sitting in the lounge at Lincoln Center, sipping coffee with my friend David, when Lois walked in, accompanied by her friend Linda. Lois immediately caught my attention. Perhaps it was the rain that made the moment special – without it, she might not have worn her striking red rain hat. The hat matched her red walker, which perfectly complemented the red lining of her coat and the soles of her shoes. It was a vision of vibrant determination on an otherwise gray day.
At 84 years old, Lois embodies the essence of a true New Yorker. She lives just around the corner from Lincoln Center with her 89-year-old husband. However, New York City wasn’t always her home – or her love.
They sold their car and embraced the freedom of Manhattan life. Despite the changing cityscape-especially post-COVID, with many beloved businesses closing-Lois has remained as vibrant as her community.
Lois spearheaded an adult education initiative within her cooperative complex, Lincoln Towers University. Supported by Project Open, a senior outreach program, it thrives in the active nine-building co-op community with its lush grounds. For Lois, living near Lincoln Center is essential. It embodies the cultural heartbeat that has sustained her through retirement.
Though Lois now walks with the aid of her red walker, she has not slowed down. She continues to live a rich and fulfilling life, proving that aging doesn't mean stepping back-it means getting out, staying involved, and embracing every moment every day.